Men...

I'm a twenty-something (okay, pushing 30), fairly attractive, self-sufficient, level-headed, professional. I've never been married, don't have any kids, no psycho ex-boyfriends, but an occasional stalker...well one "stalker" who tends to find me every few years (he's harmless really). I'm educated. I'm strong. And although I seem to have a lot going for me, I always seem to attract the wrong kind of guy. I just don't understand men. I know this is the 21st century and women ask guys out all the time, but seriously...do they expect us to all the work? Short of wearing a sign saying "ask me out", I don't know what to do. And no, I'm not desperate. I don't want just any guy to ask me out. There's one in particular. Cute, sweet, God-fearing, educated, not cocky like most guys i know. Seems to be interested just by some of the things he says to me, but just when i think he's lost interest, or I've lost interest, he'll say something to catch my attention. I'll respond, and then nothing....

what the heck's a girl supposed to do????????????

Welcome to me...

for those of you who are quite familiar with blogging, do you ever wish you could blog and not worry about what others will think about your thoughts? maybe you do, maybe you don't...either way, this is my way of blogging anonymously...i have a myspace page, but since i have so many friends on it, sometimes, i feel the need to say something, and not have them think diffrently about me. not sure if it makes sense to you, but it makes sense to me. sure, i'll have a few friends reading this blog, but whatever it is that i'm blogging about, chances are, they'll already know.

i guess what i'm saying is, this is my cyber journal. read it, ignore it, comment on it...i really don't care. but enjoy it :-)

Single in the City...

So during the week I went to a singles event with a friend. I don't normally go out in the middle of the week, but thought "What the heck, I don't have anything else better to do!" Plus, it was FREE! I got all dolled up, in my humble opinion, looked awesome! Got there, and lo and behold, all the guys there were, ummm, how do I say this nicely...special. When I say "special" I don't mean that in a good way. There's a reason why those guys are single. If you're 34 and still living with Momma for no reason, that's not a great way to pick up women. But, I digress...that's not the point of this post. Actually, a newsreporter was there, and asked my friend and I if she could interview us. She said she had been doing research, and the research suggested that women that are educated and have a high IQ, have more trouble finding suitable guys to date. She also stated that women prefer guys with a higher IQ, while men prefer women with lower IQs. I know my opinion...what's yours?